New Years Eve: is it the biggest disappointment of the year?

It’s the last week of the year and suddenly everyone you know is on this crazy mission to find a rock party for New Years Eve. The big question you ask everyone you meet is: What will you do on New Year’s Eve? Is it the biggest disappointment of the year? What is it about New Years Eve that makes everyone so nervous? No matter where in the world you are on December 31st, if you are doing nothing, you are automatically classified as a loser. You spend all your energy chasing this surreal dream of a magical night. But for what?

A great party, beautiful people and an international DJ.

A perfect way to spend New Years Eve involves a great party with beautiful people and an international DJ playing the most incredible set. It sounds almost perfect on paper, as long as it’s not superficial. Obviously there are people who like that kind of party, otherwise it wouldn’t be a huge hit, year after year after year. But if you don’t like that kind of thing and spend your week’s pay on a VIP all-area pass just to show everyone you were there, who are you really kidding?

Let’s face it, if you’re not into trance, dancing, and house beats, you really have nothing to do on the biggest night of the year. Or is there?

Here’s the deal ..

The solution is simple. Instead of having that frenzied, panicky smile on your face every time someone asks what you’re going to do on New Year’s Eve, ask them back. The only reason they ask you is probably because they don’t know what they are going to do themselves. So why not invite it with you and your friends? The more people, the more interesting the party will be. And it doesn’t have to be a raucous party where the police are called in to turn off the music. The possibilities are endless and the sky is the limit.

Make your own night to remember

Different people mean different personalities and at least one interesting person in the room is guaranteed, a person you haven’t been able to get to know properly, a joker, an attractive guy who came with your friend from work, a person who knows how to do it. to work in the grill and a person who knows someone who knows someone whose cousin has an empty house that night. Isn’t it also weird that you meet all the people you haven’t seen in decades, just before New Years? So make the most of it. Invite them too.

And even if you don’t have an empty house, go somewhere where everyone can relax and have fun (whatever that is supposed to mean).

If you’re going to be at one of those infamous parties that gets people talking about it for the next year, remember that it’s the people you hang out with who really count. You don’t NEED to be in the hottest hot spots or elite nightclubs to have a good time. It is the people you are with and the mindset you have that is part of the makings of a great night out.