Financial domination: the misunderstood fetish

Financial domination, while often misunderstood, is a valid fetish and a very powerful form of power exchange. It is often practiced outside the BDSM community.

Having the fetish of being financially controlled by a powerful Domme is somewhat similar to having pantyhose or foot fetish; only that the object of the fetish is money instead of feet or a garment. Individuals who engage in fetish tend to become aroused and, in some cases, even aroused by their fetish play; as in the case of several other sexual fetishes. In cases of financial domination, this excitement usually occurs when the slave gives money to the owner; feeling powerless under His control. In most cases, the man will experience intense emotion both when he thinks of giving money to a Domme and when he gives Tributes. This excitement can last even beyond that point, lasting for days after engaging in this fetish.

I say She and him, because generally the one who gives is a man, the one who receives is a Woman. While there are cases of dominant men participating in the fetish; it is extremely rare. Like foot fetishes, the financial domination fetish is one in which women tend to consider themselves superior; therefore, you will seldom find a woman serving a man in this way.

The payment given is called Tribute; and it can range from about fifty dollars when strangers first meet to several thousand dollars, as can be the case in well-established relationships. Like other Mistress / Slave relationships, some financial dominants will form strong bonds with those who serve them over a long period of time. However, these relationships will be very platonic. While Financial Domination is a sexually charged, arousing and provoking fetish, most Dommes will not have sex with their slave girls, just as a Professional Dominatrix would not with her clients.

The women who participate in this fetish are called princesses, queens, and even goddesses. In this exchange of power, not only money is exchanged, in many cases gifts are also given; They are usually purchased on a wish list. Gifts are so popular because there is such an emphasis on pampering and pampering the Female Dom. Allowing the Lady to live a life of absolute luxury while the man struggles and suffers in many ways for Her is often a large part of Financial Domination. Over and over again he must give up and give up, so that She can live beyond Her means. There is a great contrast between how the owner and the slave live within this fetish, as opposed to other BDSM relationships where there is more mix between the lifestyles of the two. After all, in Financial Domination she is a queen and a goddess, and he is her slave. Some Ladies specialize in the ruin of slaves, while others drain more conservatively and carefully, knowing that a completely ruined slave is useless. Yet the sheer number of men who fantasize about being ruined by a beautiful and powerful woman is staggering; however, it should be noted that for most men, it is only the fantasy of this that attracts them, not the reality. Only in rare cases does one really need and long for the reality of ruin.

This brings me to the next point. Those men who like the fetish generally crave a fair amount of humiliation and exploitation; some prefer heavy forms of Domination that include ruin, while others like soft things and prefer simply to spoil and improve their Lady’s life; perhaps adoring her a little aside. Most of the men who participate in the fetish like to be called by humiliating names like piggy, payment pet, cash cow, and even more degrading names. Some even like objectification and being ignored for days by their Domme. External relationships may not appear to have any kind of mercy or love, although some Dommes fiercely care for their paid pets; especially those who are with them long term.

Financial Domination is Power Exchange where the slave renounces his power and gives it to his Lady, filling her with money and gifts. After all, can it be hard to see how this could be such a strong form of power exchange? Money is the supreme power in today’s society and most people consider that a man’s worth depends on his possessions and the amount of money he has. The less a man possesses, the more shame and humility he feels; This is something that society has engraved on everyone’s brain. For many reasons, money is the best vehicle for fulfilling a slave’s wishes. The slave gives up his money and possessions, becoming more vulnerable, and the Lady becomes more powerful by acquiring rich and material goods. Most of those involved in financial domination have a strong fetish for money, and many men who like to serve financially or be financially exploited also yearn for humiliation; in cases of intense humiliation.

While most financial dominance is practiced solely online; although it is known that some people also do it in real time; in forms of money exploitation, compulsive shopping and various forms of humiliation. Face-to-face financial domination is very rare. Because it is mostly practiced online, there are a lot of people who get into the fetish simply for quick money and therefore there have been a lot of “fake” people who have been involved in the scene lately; especially among the Ladies. This is unfortunate, but sadly it is a case in many things where the Internet is the primary medium.

This is a very dynamic fetish, but it is commonly misunderstood. You have to understand that everyone is connected differently and that human sexuality is not a case of black and white. We come in all different colors and we all like different things. While you may never fully understand financial dominance, I hope my article has helped you understand it better.

Goddess Anja Aurora