12 signs you may be dating a bum!

Don’t assume for a second that the definition of the word bum is exclusive to someone begging for food or change, or people who are dirty and homeless. Vagabonds come in all forms. Many of them are very well dressed, very handsome, have the best haircuts, smell good, and are smart enough to bring lots of animals to play with you. Don’t be fooled by his charm, good looks, or charisma. Vagabonds like to choose their targets carefully. They intentionally prey on the lonely, vulnerable, emotionally repressed, and sexually hungry. Tramps often show signs of their losing behavior. You may have dated a few, or you could be dating one right now and not know it.

Below are 12 signs to help you spot whether or not you’re dating one of these parasitic bloodsuckers:

• Attach Quick Forms – Tramps tend to have very superficial relationships, and this can lead to women being impressed by their eagerness to tell you that they love you, and to talk about marriage and commitment. Do not be fooled. Everything is game. The tramp is not really committed. This kind of talk is deliberately done to throw you into a spin of confusion, as it positions you exactly where they want you to be, at their beck and call.
• borrow money – He starts with a few dollars and promises to pay her back. Very soon, the loan becomes a habit and you never see the money in return. The stingy are bad; freeloaders are worse. You know he could help, but he’s selfish and has an unusual sense of entitlement. He is a bum!
• constantly apologize – Losers make excuses, winners make things happen. If he constantly gives excuse after excuse for why he can’t keep working, isn’t in school, doesn’t have money, has a bad temper, or why he becomes violent when you refuse to meet his needs. He is a bum!
• He lives with his mother, aunt, grandmother, best friend, etc. – This isn’t necessarily a deal breaker for some, but it’s definitely something worth looking into. Personal economic downturns are usually temporary, not permanent. If you have a fully stocked basement “room” where you pursue your personal interests, like music, computers, porn, weight lifting. Yes, this guy has set up his house. He’s not going anywhere anytime soon unless he’s over to your house to make a living off of you. He is a bum!
• Hit the panic button at the sign of a breakout – Tramps tend to panic at the thought of you cutting them off, unless it’s their idea, and then they drop you like a hot stone. They will break down and cry, beg, promise changes, offer gifts, and even threaten suicide. It’s all a game to play with your emotions, and it’s made to throw you on a guilt trip where you’re then pushed into a multitude of emotions (ex. blaming yourself, feelings that your are the problem, etc.)
• paranoid control – Tramps can be very controlling, which has to do with their feelings of inadequacy. They will encourage you to give up your hobbies, interests, and involvement with others, yes, even your friends and family. The idea behind this is to prevent you from doing anything other than participating in activities that they fully control.
• If he’s a Dead-Beat dad – This is self explanatory. Don’t assume it will be any different if you have a baby for him.
• If you abuse alcohol and drugs – He’s a bum!
• He spends his days texting, Facebooking, playing video games, eating and sleeping all day – He’s a bum! Real men are productive individuals. They will make themselves useful in any way they can, not only to you but to themselves.
• Constantly borrowing your car – He’s a bum!
• If everything you do is never enough! He is a tramp.
• Live in a constant state of drama – Criminal record, bad credit, cries broke, has a story for everything, is irresponsible and lies all the time for no reason. He is a bum!

These are just a few warning signs to give you an idea of ​​how to identify a bum and how to spot their losing behavior. Vagabonds are like parasites or worse, fungal infections. If you don’t protect yourself against them, they will manifest and take over. I’ve seen some of the strongest, most independent, self-reliant women fall victim to good looks and a big penis, only to be left with an empty wallet, a broken heart, and tons of emotional baggage.

Never allow yourself to be so caught up in your emotions that you feel unable to get out of the relationship. We all inevitably resort to self-doubt when we fear that we cannot control our experience. Please know that it is not your job to correct, fix, heal, change or cleanse any man.

The best kind of kryptonite against drifters is to set some standards. Your standards will help you recognize your worth, and sticking to them will help you avoid losers at all costs. Don’t compromise your happiness for anyone. If a potential suitor shows any of the above signs, take them as giant red flags and run as fast as he can.