Powerful Psychological Tricks You Can Use Right Away: Make Your Ex Girlfriend Chase You
After your relationship breaks up, both you and your ex-girlfriend are likely to have regrets and hurt over the resolution of the breakup. You may want to give the relationship another try and win your ex girlfriend back, and chances are, she probably feels the same way inside! But your ex may resist or even avoid you for now; After a breakup, both parties need time and space to let heated feelings (and resistance) cool down; girls tend to do it longer than boys.
There are a number of “sneaky” tactics you can use immediately after a breakup (even three seconds right after your ex leaves him) — that will make her realize:
- You are irreplaceable and dear to his life; She may never find someone else who satisfies her like you.
- I may have lost you forever.
- Breaking up with you was probably rash and a stupid mistake and I should have tried to work things out with you before it was too late.
You see, you’re going to change things completely – instead of your ex being the one to reject your texts, calls, or attempts at reconciliation, the two of you will swap roles and Your ex girlfriend will be the one running back to you!
Step #1: Go along with the breakup and seem relieved
You may be stunned, very confused, or seriously hurt by your girlfriend’s decision to break up. It is healing to let your feelings out and be honest with yourself about how you feel, but in the presence of your ex girl, hide your pain and sadness temporarily, they will take her away from her right now! The first step you should take as soon as possible is to accept that the breakup is a good thing; acknowledge that you think splitting up is a wise decision and say “we’d be better off that way.”
Breathe, be friendly and brief, speak calmly and clearly, and show that you are relieved to be out of this relationship. Let your self-confidence shine through, that means you’ll be fine (and possibly better off) without her, say goodbye to her sincerely and say goodbye. You can probably see by now: this puts the power to reunite in your hands, which means your ex-girlfriend is now the rejected one.
If you can’t meet face-to-face (which I recommend), I’ve heard this works well in writing as well. Keep your note short! And remember, you’re “moving on,” so space between you and your ex is needed for a while.
Step #2: Don’t try to make her jealous.
This means don’t deliberately flirt with her close friends or beauties who are in the same room as you and her. Your ex will feel like you’re not over her, you’re rude, and you want her to be envious, which is a BIG rejection for your ex (and potential dates) and off-putting to begin with.
Instead, acknowledge to yourself that you are a highly desirable man who leads a full and generous life; take the initiative to feel happy, active and fulfilled or you can bring others down with you and give off a “depressing aura” (it is it is a great challenge; after a devastating breakup, you probably just want to stay in bed, eat comfort food, and do other things, but they will make you sadder and prevent you from preparing to charm your ex).
However, if your ex naturally hears or sees that you’ve been dating, great! It will have a much bigger impact on her than if he hears this news from you. What also works great with your ex is hearing from a friend that you’ve been doing great and that you’ve been busy and having fun. So don’t stop going out; you are a precious, lovable and unique person, and now that your ex has let you go, you are free to “go back to the market” so to speak!
Step #3: Stuck on your ex girlfriend? Here’s how to make it stick to you!
To quote “the most romantic man in the world” (who has appeared on many TV stations and shows), Michael Webb: “A man with a heart will win a lot more women than a man with a Harley.”
Speaking as a girl, many, many women will say, “That’s true!!” You can volunteer as a Big Brother (someone who volunteers with children without dads), go out and give your strength and capable body to community service work, help your friends, etc. However, you must do it honestly, not as an act; Your ex-girlfriend will pick up on all of this, and if she can tell you’re being honest about it, you’ll earn more than her admiration – she’ll actually turn her head 180 degrees and wonder what she was thinking when she wanted to break up with a man who exudes such kindness and warmth. (that is Really attractive to all the ladies, so if your girl wants to come back, she probably has competition!)
What you do will weigh much more than what you say.
Step #4: Exude self-confidence and stay socially active
If your main focus is getting your ex girlfriend back, surround yourself with well wishes, positive attitudes, and good friends. Show your girl that people appreciate you and love having you around. As more people start to feel good about your presence in their lives, your ex will start to see you in a whole new light. She will realize that you are a good person that she simply cannot afford to lose. You are above being easily abandoned. This is one of the best ways to let your ex see you in a new light.
Keep a good appearance and take care of your health! This can be a challenge after a breakup when you don’t feel like eating or sleeping, but instead retreat to the house. to get your ex back you should not let your appearance reflect your situation. You should pay attention to every detail of your appearance, including your clothes, your hair, your walk, your shoes, and even your voice.
It can be hard to act happy or take care of yourself after a bad breakup, but this is one of the best ways you can let your ex know that you’re okay and that you’re responsible for your own happiness. This is probably the way you were when she spoke to you in a special way, she smiled at you often and wished she was always by your side.
While these will definitely help you get your ex girl back…