So your ex boyfriend broke up with you and now he says he just wanted to be friends. At this point, you might be wondering why he said he just wanted to be friends. Was this statement serious? Did he really tell you this? If that’s the case, it’s really a negative sign and you have to do something about it, otherwise you risk losing it forever. Read on to find out exactly how to tackle this situation.
When your ex boyfriend said he just wanted to be friends, you probably knew or at least suspected what he meant by that. If you find it hard to understand what that means, you still have strong feelings for him and you don’t want to lose him. In a situation like this, you must first accept what he said to get it back.
At the moment you have already decided, nothing can make you change your mind, and even begging and crying cannot change your mind. Trying to argue with him will definitely do more harm than good. However, the worst thing to do in a situation like this is to promise you sex to get it back.
We all know that men can be cruel when it comes to sex. The fact is, it may take a while for your ex boyfriend to start dating a rebound relationship. Not all men are comfortable paying for sexual services, and those men would rather have a sexual relationship with an ex. The reasons why some men resort to having a sexual relationship with their ex are: trust, familiarity, pleasure, an established bond. Be on the lookout when your ex boyfriend says he wants to be friends. Her reason for being friends with you could be to have a sexual relationship with you. In a situation like this, your ex wants a friend with benefits.
He no longer wants to be in a relationship with you. If he suggests being friends, you should say NO. It is obvious that you do not want to be a simple friend, but a friend with benefits. If you accept this, you will never get it back. The truth is, you can’t get your ex back when he just wants to be friends.
Getting it back takes a lot more than just being friends. It requires a lot of work on your part, as well as a game plan. Getting your boyfriend back is absolutely possible; however, you can’t do it while stuck in the “friend zone.” Rather, you should ditch that friendship and make an effort to get it back as a lover.